Here is my rant for the day. I listen to so many women complain about not losing weight and they go on and on about what "diet" they are on and how they still aren't losing weight, and I think they've got it all wrong. They are obsessed with the quick fix, but I am here to tell you that there is no quick fix and if there is one, I guarantee you it isn't a healthy one.
Weight loss is not all about calories my friends. It took me a long time to realize that. It isn't about calories in vs. calories out. The old thought that if you reduce your calorie intake you'll lose weight, might work for some, but ultimately you need to begin changing your
lifestyle. In my experience, weight loss is more about what you put into your body than anything else.
I applaud women who want to reduce their calorie intake, but are you really helping your body if you cut out a big healthy breakfast of eggs and veggies so you can have dessert later in the day? The "I won't eat this so I can have that later" mentality won't get you very far. You have to want to change your life.
I struggled with this one. Making a lifestyle change seems so much harder than going on a "diet", but it really isn't that hard once you make the decision to do it.
I know, you're thinking, "where do I start?"
First, you need to educate yourself on what foods are and are not healthy. I'll admit that this is actually more difficult than you'd think since there are so many people out there telling us what is and what is not good for us and many of them simply have their own money making agenda rather than our health in mind.
I'll go into some recommended reading in another post, but here are some general tips:
1. Eat real food. What do I mean by real food? I mean nothing that comes out of a box or has ingredients you can't pronounce. If you don't know what you're eating why are you eating it? Get yourself some locally produced organic veggies and dig in. If you are a meat eater find yourself some locally sourced, humanely raised meat and don't forget the veggies.
2. Cut out the grains. I cannot emphasis this enough. You know how after you eat the bread they give you at a restaurant you feel immediately full and you get sort of an ache in your intestines? Yeah, you know what I mean. Guess what? You don't have to feel this way, just stop eating grains. Our bodies were not meant to digest them and they are loaded with carbs and carbs = sugar. Which brings me to point #3.
3. Cut out the sugar. I mean this, really. Get off the sugar. There is no health benefit to it whatsoever. You don't need that bowl of ice cream or that cookie. If you really want something sweet there are alternatives.
4. Know yourself. If you are the kind of person who cannot eat in moderation then you need to embrace that. I have fairly good self control, which means I can eat only 2 tablespoons of almond butter and not want to devour the entire jar, but if you aren't someone who can do that then you'll seriously need to decide to give up those "trigger" foods. By trigger foods I mean foods that are OK in moderation, but that you simply cannot eat in moderation. I repeat, know yourself. It's OK to admit when there is something you can't do. It will take a lot of determination, but you can live without things.
Make the decision that you are going to eat real food and you will find yourself so much happier and healthier.
Now go eat your veggies.